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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/WholesomeFeedr on 2023-09-11 12:56:12.
[ TLDR : We move, she follows, 24/7, Why?? ]
My girlfriend and I are in our 20’s and share a one bedroom in a lower income area. I’d like to think it’s not too bad. We have a patio/balcony, grass, we’ve got a tree outside of our bedroom window! We’ve been here for maybe four months now, within the last month our neighbor and her husband moved in upstairs. They don’t live with any kids, might have immigrated here, somewhere in their later 50’s, he works a lot and she stays home.
We haven’t really spoken to her and her husband very much. It seems none of us are very sociable, which is great for us because we like to be left alone. Only once we spoke to the woman while passing each other outside. I think she only spoke to us due to the shock of seeing the complex’s trash bins overflowing mess, and they’re directly in front of our unit. After her venting about that, we never spoke again. I tried to acknowledge her once while unloading groceries from the car, She was setting cloths to air dry on her balcony. I gave a little wave and half smile, done this millions of times and it’s always been communicated fine, and she was literally in shock and scampered inside.
My girlfriend noticed her following us first. What she does exactly, is when she hears one of us walk or make a noise somewhere in the apartment, she’ll walk to the same spot in her unit, and stand there. I don’t know why, but she does! Almost every time we do something!
Middle of the day? Follows.
Just now at 3:00am? Follows
This time when she got to her spot, following me move a floor below her, she was lightly stepping back and fourth and I could hear it through the floor. When I went to the door, she followed. The couch, she followed. I tiptoed to my bed, I don’t know where she is now.
My girlfriend thinks it’s witchcraft or drugs, she also says she heard people do it to snoop on what peoples lives might be like. I think she’s right, or the lady’s just neurotic
What do you think? Why is this lady following us around the house?
Thank you for your help!! :D