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It's Father's Day in the United States. What is a memory of your father that left the greatest impact on your life? in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

He doesn't deserve you.

It's Father's Day in the United States. What is a memory of your father that left the greatest impact on your life? in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 4 points 1 month ago

It's tricky to get an abusive narcissist out of your head. They have a way of living there.

No joke! That's been the worst!

I'm glad you still have her around, and the chance to share time without the negatives.

I am. My 21 year old daughter has been evidence that I'm doing something ok despite, and it's amazing.

One of the most healing things so far has been the fact that I can look back and feel confident that I was right every time I thought "this feels like it is wrong and should be different". My daughter still finds me regularly for spontaneous hugs and any time something needs fixing that she hadn't figured out yet.

I hope you find a similar chance. It's deserved.

Trump Has Completely Wrecked America's Brand in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

He's made it worse sure, but I'd argue it's been wrecked for decades or more... Possibly a could hundred years at this point.

It's Father's Day in the United States. What is a memory of your father that left the greatest impact on your life? in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Solidarity. I can say that from the other side of that coin, it's not always better... Divorced when I was 12, I told my mother "about fucking time" and got slapped.

My single mother later destroyed my teenage years and 20s. She died and it took 10 years for the financial fraud to fall away. I'm still working to escape damage from her extorting and manipulating me by threatening to accuse me of molesting my daughter with several of her friends willing to lie to police.

I hope you at least came away with positives to build with.

It's Father's Day in the United States. What is a memory of your father that left the greatest impact on your life? in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 9 points 1 month ago

I flat celebrated my father's death. The upside was he instilled equality of gender well, and considering the 80s that wasn't common around middle USA.

Father's Day is complex for me. Balancing my adult daughter bringing it for me vs memories of mine takes effort.

What's your favourite OS that does not use systemd? in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 4 points 1 month ago

OS/2

Are you the key master? in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 1 points 1 month ago

Yes have some.

This thing has been in my bedside drawer for years because it's an 'important' part. in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 31 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

https://ziperone.com/products/00000061782

It's a hinge cover for a fridge looks like.

‘Mr. Robot’ Is Coming to Netflix in July in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 2 points 1 month ago

I dunno, I've rewatched a couple times... There's a TON of details that I either missed, or take on a completely different context following the ending.

Not required, but if you really enjoyed, then watching to catch the missed nuance can be another form of enjoyment too.

MAGA turns on Walmart after heiress takes out full-page NYT ad in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 23 points 1 month ago

It hurt itself in the confusion!

Frigging peas 🫛 in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Switched to melons

The Expanse: Osiris Reborn Announcement Trailer in c/[email protected]

[–] tenchiken 79 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up... Please don't fuck this up...